Can I Do It On My Own? Addiction Solutions -drug rehab alone
Have you ever wondered why the U.S.
and many other countries, right down to their cities and small towns, have
developed drug cultures so severe that even prescription drug addiction,
dependency and abuse is epidemic? It used to be that we could pretty much trust
that our kids would not get involved with drugs - sure, the occasional kid
would, but the vast majority would not. Now drug detox and drug rehab centers
all over the U.S. are inundated with kids and young adults who have been using
drugs on a daily basis just to try to live a normal life.
Whatever happened to the Norman
Rockwell ideal? Does it even exist anymore? Why have things changed so much? drug rehab
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Take a look around, or watch the news.
We're bombarded day in and day out with news about wars, nuclear threats,
global warming, economies plummeting, natural disasters wiping out towns,
unemployment lines swelling, the housing market crashing, people being raped,
beaten, robbed and murdered. Is it any wonder that people can't sleep, feel
confused, nervous, frightened, worried or hopeless? Is it any wonder that even 12-year-old
kids, living in the midst of this bedlam, would want to change how they feel by
using drugs?
You might think your kid is immune to
this stuff - living their days happily playing with friends, going to school,
working out their future. But if they're watching the news, they might wonder
if they even have a future. So, not unlike the millions of adults using
prescription drugs to cope with life, kids, too, turn to drugs.
On top of watching all that stuff on
TV, and listening to their parents discussing these issues with an air of
hopelessness, some kids don't always get the attention they need at home.
Parents have so much to cope with these days that, even though spending time
with their kids is one of their favorite things to do, they sometimes just
don't have as much time as they'd like.
Do I need
help with my addiction
If a kid gets involved in drugs, you
can always help them with a good drug rehab program - and you should do it
quickly: disastrous things can happen with drugs without a moment's notice. But
kids also need to live in a safe environment, including the home. They also
need to understand what's going on in the world and how they can avoid the many
pitfalls it has to offer. If you start teaching them early enough, you may even
be able to ensure they never take drugs, and never need drug rehab. I've had
several coaching clients come to me who, while they wanted to move forward in
life, were actually stuck in a self-destructive addiction. Of course, I cannot
directly confront them about their addictions, as they had to open up to me
that it was part of the problem that was keeping them in the same rut in which
they found themselves day-after-day. As we worked together to make plans and
open doors, the addiction was left open for them to examine and realize that
they needed to overcome the situation, and cut loose that anchor to move
forward to a fulfilling life. self recovery
I'm not speaking of any particular
addiction, as we all have one or two in our lives. However, for sake of
discussion, the primary addictions that people fall to when they find that
their lives are faltering are alcohol and drugs. Of course, these usually come
into play once their addictions to depression and negative situations overtake
their lives and they feel as though they have no where left to turn. But, as we
peel away the negative situations and tend to the depression through medical
assistance, they are better able to accept that now they must eliminate the
substance addiction.
Whether it's a long term marriage or a
short term relationship, many of us find ourselves single again, feeling alone
and "starting from scratch." Common thoughts that occur might be,
"Will I ever find someone else? When will I have companionship again? Will
I ever have sex again?" I have found that desperation leads to spinning
your wheels, with minimal results and nothing meaningful unfolding. While time
is a great healer and you will heal, it might take a while for your
"system" (internal workings) to settle down.can I beat my
own addiction
So why wait? In the meantime, there
are simple and powerful measures we can easily put into practice to build up
our feelings of self esteem (empowerment) vs. feeling impotent or powerless.
First, take stock of yourself. Write down your good qualities and keep them
conveniently by your bedside. Then, make it a habit of reading, reviewing and
adding to them at least once a day (when you awaken and as you go to sleep are
the best times). The key is to make sure that as you are reading them you
relish (take pleasure) and feel good about each item on your list. If you feel
that you need more items on your list, you can also add things you feel
grateful ("great-full") for-let's call it a "count
-your-blessings" list!
Becoming sober can be difficult and dangerous.
Finding help
by entering a treatment program increases your chance of maintaining your
sobriety.drug rehab alone can I
fix my own addiction
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